Friday Finds

In an attempt to post more often I thought I’d begin by adding something easy to write.

On Fridays, I will share things I’ve found or appreciated during the week, likely a random selection of articles, podcast episodes, links, recipes and/or products.

Here goes nothing 🙂

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51 Most Beautiful Sentences in Literature – there are some great lines in here; some that I’ve read and some I haven’t.

I made this Maple Bacon Cinnamon Roll Cake last night. I haven’t tasted it yet but I think it’s going to be delicious!  I also made these Pumpkin Bars with Brown Sugar Frosting and they are so good!

I just received my shipping notice for my 2017 Planner! I used inkWell Press this year and love it! Their 2017 updates make me very excited.  For $10 off your own planner, use this link 🙂

And lastly, I’ve really enjoyed these two podcasts lately: Hamilton the Podcast is great for all you Hamilton/history nerds and Broadway fans alike! Robbie and Vinton break down a different song each episode and highlight nuances that a casual soundtrack listener might not know.  It’s awesome!  Also, Real Crime Profile has been highlighting some of our most compelling crimes in recent history.  They are currently discussing the JonBenet Ramsey case (two of the hosts also produced the CBS documentary that airs Sunday and Monday), but recently highlighted the OJ Simpson trial, the Colonial Parkway Killer, and Oscar Pistorius’s trial.  It’s interesting and informative.

What have you found lately? Share in the comments!

 

What I Read: August 2016 Edition

I suppose I shouldn’t be putting this up already, as there is still another day, but I’m feeling pretty confident that I won’t finish another book between now and then.

August was a weird reading month for me.  I went “back” to work “full-time” on the first.  If you know me, you understand the quotation marks.  I actually never left work or went down to part-time. I just don’t get paid for all the time I put in during the summer months. Nevertheless, the start of the school year is always a stressful time and I didn’t finish my first book until the 13th.  After that, however, I was able to pick up the pace.

Here’s my list!

  • Bittersweet: Thoughts on Change, Grace, and Learning the Hard Way – Shauna Niequist – a beautiful collection of essays written during a tough season in the author’s life.  I haven’t read anything by Niequist that I haven’t liked. My only complaint is that every time I read them, I get hungry.
  • You Learn by Living: Eleven Keys to a More Fulfilling Life – Eleanor Roosevelt – there is a lot of wisdom packed into this small book.
  • Rebecca – Daphne du Maurier – fantastic read!  Rebecca is incredibly creepy without any gratuitous horror or violence. I loved it.
  • Alexander Hamilton – Ron Chernow – interesting, but I struggled to finish. As with many biographies, I found it a bit dry.
  • Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet – Jamie Ford – I love historical fiction and often find myself immersed somewhere in the 1940s, but this is the first time I’ve heard the story through the eyes of Japanese Americans.
  • Kidnapped – Dee Henderson – This book was previously published under the title True Courage, which I may have read, but if I did I never remembered the ending during the reread.  Henderson’s work isn’t going to win major literary awards but she tells an engrossing story well and I can easily finish them in a day or two.  I needed that after reading Alexander Hamilton.
  • Wild and Free: A Hope-Filled Anthem for the Woman who Feels She is Both Too Much and Never Enough – Jess Connelly & Hayley Morgan – Not my favorite memoir/Christian living of the year but they definitely speak Truth.
  • Missoula: Rape and the Justice System in a College Town – Jon Krakauer – major trigger warning with this one. Krakauer sticks to the facts, and I appreciated his style.  Even though it is clearly nonfiction, it almost reads like a novel. An important read, but a difficult one.

This brings my total for the year to 68 books.  I’m cautiously optimistic that I will indeed reach 100 again by the end of the year.

What I Read This Summer

First, I’d like to apologize to my sister Amy for not posting all summer. She’s such a faithful reader – even texts me to ask me to post. Glad I have one!

I don’t have a lot to say today. It is my last day of summer break, though I really have been working at least a couple days a week all summer. Tomorrow, however, is the day I go back full time, and school starts in two weeks!

I didn’t read nearly as much as I thought I would this summer. I worked a lot and since so much of my summer work is spent staring intently at spreadsheets and computer screens, my eyes are tired when I get home and I have no motivation to read.

Here’s what I read in June and July.

  • 11/22/63 (Stephen King)
  • The Widow (Fiona Barton)
  • Better than Before (Gretchen Rubin)
  • Eligible (Curtis Sittenfield)
  • Don’t You Cry (Mary Kubica)
  • The Storied Life of A.J. Fikry (Gabrielle Zevin)
  • Finding Spiritual Whitespace (Bonnie Gray)
  • Britt-Marie Was Here (Fredrick Backman)
  • The Bluest Eye (Toni Morrison)
  • Bridget Jones: Mad About the Boy (Helen Fielding)
  • The Nest (Cynthia D’Aprix Sweeney)
  • Where’d You Go, Bernadette (Maria Semple)
  • The Blue Castle (L.M. Montgomery)
  • The Hypnotist’s Love Story (Liane Moriarty)
  • Heart Made Whole (Christa Black Gifford)

I’ve got to say, I enjoyed every one of these books. But, if I could only recommend three, they would be Eligible (a modern day retelling of Pride & Prejudice), The Storied Lie of A.J. Fikry, and The Blue Castle (though you should keep in mind that you’ll find it in the children’s section of the library…).

Total Books Read in 2016: 60

Happy Reading!

Giddy Up!

A couple months ago, the amazing Sophie Hudson put out an all-call for people to help promote her upcoming book.  Because I loved her first two books, A Little Salty to Cut the Sweet and Home is Where My People Are, I immediately applied to be part of the launch team, although I never expected to actually be chosen.  BUT I WAS!

The best part of being on a launch team is getting to read a much anticipated book before everyone else. I received my copy of Giddy Up, Eunice: Because Women Need Each Other about a month ago and promptly read it in a day and a half.

Y’all. It’s so good.

[Disclaimer: although I did receive the book for free, the review below is completely my own honest opinion.]

In this book, Hudson studies three pairs of female friendships in Scripture and provides practical applications for us today…with humor, wisdom, depth, and ALL THE FEELS.  There were moments when I laughed out loud and others when I sobbed.  I was convicted, comforted, and challenged, all at the same time. There is something so beautiful that happens when women live life together and the Spirit of God is present.

Another thing that sets these three friendships apart is that all three pairs, Elizabeth and Mary, Naomi and Ruth, and Eunice and Lois, are cross-generational friendships.  We need each other.  We should be reaching out to those ahead and behind us.

Sophie interjects stories of the women in her own life – a beautiful tribute to her mother and mother-in-law and many others who have spoken truth to her in times of need. I couldn’t help but think the many women who have gone ahead for me – and that’s when the tears started to fall.

Here are just a few of my favorite quotes:

“Culture tells us to compete. To look out for ourselves. Scripture tells us to bless. To look out for each other.”

“The majority of women who are involved in a church or synagogue state that they feel little, if any, emotional support from their congregation…Yes, it’s vulnerable to open up about the deepest desires of our hearts, not to mention our sin and our shortcomings, but it’s better than being isolated. It’s better than being bitter…What are we going to model for [Millennials] and the generations behind them? Are we going to pass on a culture of honor and blessing? A culture where women are valued for the unique gifts they bring to the body of Christ? A culture where women are supportive of each other, encouraging and kind?”

“If we tell ourselves that a person will never understand where we’re coming from and what we’re dealing with, then odds are we won’t open up. And if we don’t open up, we can rest assured that we’ll miss out on other women’s wisdom and perspective. We might even walk around with a bunch of burdens we shouldn’t be trying to carry alone. We might compare ourselves straight into isolation and loneliness. Or, heaven forbid, we might just quit – quit trying to reach out, quit trying to connect, quit trying to be vulnerable, quit trying to support, and quit trying to love each other really well.”

What I Read in May 2016

What a ridiculous month it’s been! School ended on Friday after a whirlwind last four weeks of testing, during which I worked about 12 hours a day each day, plus more on weekends. I am truly blessed to have a job I love, but the last month wore me out. If that wasn’t hard enough, I am also moving this Thursday, so I’ve been packing and painting and otherwise stressing myself out.

I did, however, read a few books! I’m slowly working my way through Stephen King’s 11/22/63, all 849 pages, and I think I may actually finish it and read one additional book in June. But first, here’s what I read in May.

  • The Secret Keeper (Kate Morton) – Kate Morton’s books are long, but this one is probably my favorite of her works that I’ve read.
  • Calling Me Home (Julie Kibler) – loved this story about an interracial relationship in the 1930s
  • Strong and Weak (Andy Crouch) – great commentary on leadership
  • Bel Canto (Ann Patchett) – I liked this one alright, but it was a little boring for me. I didn’t connect with the characters.
  • Giddy Up, Eunice (Sophie Hudson) – I am so fortunate to be on the launch team for this book.  I got an advance copy (it comes out this Tuesday) and read it in two days.  This book is so good! I laughed, I cried, was impressed with its depth, and remembered all the dear women in my own life.  Get this book!
  • Still Life (Louise Penny) – I’m in a readers’ Facebook group called “SortaLiterary” and so many members have raved about this book. I did not like it.
  • A Man Called Ove (Frederik Backman) – This is the best fiction I’ve read so far this year.  I love Ove (pronounced Ooo-va), the world’s most loving curmudgeon.  In my mind he looks like my grandpa.

Year total to date: 45.

 

A Letter to My Mom

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Dear Mom,

For Mother’s Day this year I decided to take some time to put into words how much I love you.  Words are one of my love languages, so I’m hoping it’s at least somewhat near the top of your list, though I know I’d probably be a better daughter if I were in Blacksburg right now helping renovate the new house. But, I am giving you my microwave so that has to count for something, right?

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The older I get the more I recognize the miracle that is family. For thirty years you have loved, nurtured, taught, disciplined, and exhorted the five of us, pushing us toward faith, love and good deeds.  I don’t need to convince anyone that you were the best mom.  In the past thirty (!) years you and dad have successfully launched five kids into the world. Five college degrees, five careers, five humans who no longer need to live with you. Don’t get me wrong – we all still need you, but your children are all successful independent adults (well, I guess there is still a chance one of the others could screw that up…not me of course).

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Five kids in seven years. You must have been exhausted, but I couldn’t tell.  I can’t remember a single time when I needed you and you didn’t have time for me. I know there were seasons that I drove you crazy, but you never pushed me away.  You sent my friends home when my introversion couldn’t stand to be around people, and I could always trust to you say “No” to something I didn’t want to have to do.  That was the best.  In fact, I recently helped a fellow introvert make a similar plan with her mom.

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It’s actually funny to me how many times I sit with a student and think to myself, “What would mom say right now if she was here?” Most of the time, your proverbs come out of my mouth.

“Just do it and your heart will follow.”

“Don’t argue with an idiot. He’ll drag you down to his level and beat you with experience.”

and…perhaps the best of all…

“Yeah, that’s just not true.”

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Five kids. Five.

But we all know the reality is that you have countless more.

Mom, Ma Duggar and Mrs. Bates combined don’t have as many children as you.

What’s so crazy to me is that now I realize it wasn’t your children bringing them in, but it was you.

Eddie is the first one I remember.  There you were, taking care of him and helping his mom, living out for me what it meant to “care for the orphans and widows in their distress” before I could even read.

For thirty years. Every day.  Single moms, young families, teenagers who needed a mentor, college students.  As your biological children got older, your other kids did as well.  Their names are running through my mind and I know I haven’t even thought of them all.  Every day of my life you’ve just showed up and loved people by giving them your time, sharing your wealth, giving away your possessions, and by getting dirty and working with them.

And what astounds me most is that you never quit. Even now, when your children are grown and you’ve reached an age where you could gracefully bow out of this kind of service, you show up.  You serve in the nursery every Sunday. You mentor young mothers, but even more wonderfully, you love their children. You invite them in, care for them, give their parents a break.  You see needs and fill them. You notice what needs to be done and do it.  Even this month, you’re moving out of your house so someone else can stay there.

For thirty years I’ve had the honor of watching you die to yourself every day.  For years I came downstairs in the morning to see you sitting on the couch, reading your Bible and praying. Then, you got up and went to work, faithfully living out the gospel.

You are the most faithful, steadfast servant I have ever known. You weren’t a stay at home mom at all – you were a full time teacher and missionary, making disciples by doing other people’s laundry, cleaning other people’s houses, buying other people groceries, loving other people’s kids….in the name of Jesus.

I just pray one day I can be half the woman you are. That I will be faithful, selfless, and willing, as a friend, daughter, sister, wife and mother.

Love,

Allison

Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many women have done excellently, but you surpass them all.” 

Let her works praise her in the gates.

 

What I Read: April 2016

April was a ridiculously productive reading month. I still don’t quite know why. I guess it’s because there were so many books I was excited to read and because I used reading as a reward for getting my work done.

Here’s what I read in April, with a brief description of each.

  1. So You’ve Been Publicly Shamed (Jon Ronson) – didn’t love it. I felt like this was a book that could have been a magazine article. However, if you are a big Jon Ronson fan, I’m sure you’d enjoy it. I preferred The Psychopath Test and Nonsense: the Power of Not Knowing.
  2. The Distant Hours (Kate Morton) – This story is set in England and flashes back to the 1930s.  Mysterious, but not a mystery, with an unexpected twist at the end. I enjoyed it.
  3. Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us (Daniel H. Pink) – this is a nonfiction book looking at motivation and our system of rewards in current employment. I read this for class and found it fascinating.
  4. Rising Strong (Brene Brown) – this is the second book of Brown’s that I read. It is about overcoming adversity. I love her sociologist’s perspective. although I could have done without all the anecdotes. Just give me the data.
  5. After You (JoJo Moyes) – This is a must-read for anyone who cried through Before You. Although I find the arc a bit too unbelievable, it provided the resolution I needed and I was pleased.
  6. Four Seasons in Rome: On Twins, Insomnia and the Biggest Funeral in the History of the World (Anthony Doerr) – this was a fun memoir. Doerr reflects on the year he lived in Italy while writing. The funeral refers to the death of the Pope. What I loved best about this was that the book he was supposed to be writing during this year was All the Light We Cannot See, which I loved. A fun, short read.
  7. The Hole in our Gospel: What Does God Expect of Us (Richard Stearns) – challenging and convicting. Written by the president of World Vision.
  8. The Kitchen House (Kathleen Grissom) – I absolutely loved this historical fiction novel set in Virginia in 1810. It tells the story of the antebellum South through the eyes of Belle, a slave whose father is the plantation owner, and Lavinia, a white indentured servant on the same plantation.
  9. Pretty Baby (Mary Kubica) – This was a really interesting suspense novel. I could not put this book down. It tells the story of what happens when a middle aged woman struggling with infertility and depression takes in a homeless girl with a baby. Where it goes…you would never expect.
  10. The Grownup (Gillian Flynn) – I hated everything about this. It’s a short story and I read it in half an hour. If it had been any longer I would have stopped reading.
  11. Glory Over Everything: Beyond the Kitchen House (Kathleen Grissom) – this is the sequel to The Kitchen House. I loved it because it provided some resolution to some loose ends in the first book, but since the main characters are male, it didn’t resonate with me as much.
  12. Garden City: Work, Rest, and the Art of Being Human (John Mark Comer) – a great, Christian, grace-filled perspective on keeping the Sabbath.
  13. Looking for Lovely: Collecting Moments that Matter (Annie F. Downs) – oh, Annie. This book spoke to my heart more than any other book I’ve read this year. My only criticism is that I wish she’d added more Scripture. It’s memoir in every sense.
  14. The Forgetting Time (Sharon Guskin) – This debut novel tells the story of a single mom whose four-year old son suddenly starts “rememebering” things he never experienced. Unique and captivating.

My Top 3: Drive, The Kitchen House, Looking for Lovely

2016 Book Count: 38

April Thoughts & Finds

I feel like I blinked and April was over.  This month has seemed to go by even faster than normal, I guess because I was so busy.  I’m glad to say I was also productive: this month I wrote two 15+ page papers for my classes, accomplished all of my work goals, lost 8 lbs, and still managed to read 14 books!

I will list the books in a separate post, but for now, here’s what I learned in April.

  1. did not learn how to fold a fitted sheet. It’s pathetic. I cannot do it. It’s gotten to the point that I don’t even try anymore and I stuff the sheets inside the matching pillowcase like a sleeping bag. Somebody, help!
  2. I am most successful when I am under pressure. I guess it makes me more disciplined. Honestly, I felt like I was barely keeping my head above water this month, but when I look at what I accomplished, I feel proud.
  3. My Fitness Pal works for me. I’ve been struggling to lose weight this year (and I really need to lose a significant amount).  I’ve had a FitBit since September, but it really didn’t help other than to keep me accountable with movement. I started using the My Fitness Pal app this month to track my calorie intake (this is really where my problem lies anyway). What I love most is that MFP syncs with my FitBit and adjusts my calorie allowance based on my level of activity. Also, at the end of each day, it lets me know how well (or how poorly) I did. I love it! And, considering I lost the same amount of weight this month as I did the first three months of the year combined, I’d say it’s working.
  4. This one isn’t something I learned but something I found. I listen to an unmanageable amount of podcasts and yet discovered two more I love this month. What Should I Read Next? has proven to be a very helpful podcast because it’s given me far better book recommendations than what I’ve received from a few other popular book podcasts. It seems the guests on this show have more similar tastes. Many of the books I read this month were recommendations from this show. The other “find” is Timothy Keller’s Redeemer Church sermons podcast. I learn so much from his teachings.

So that’s what I learned in April. I will be back tomorrow with a list of books I read this month.  If you want to see what others have learned this month, hop on over to Emily’s blog and browse through the link-up.

Current Life Soundtrack

I’ve spent the last four months listening to the same five albums over and over.  I thought it’d be fun to share them today, as these artists and songs have spoken to my heart time and again.  The lyrics in many of these songs have great power and I love that they get stuck in my head.

Just this morning I was switching back and forth between these two refrains.

“You don’t give Your heart in pieces / You don’t hide Yourself to tease us.”

“So I will wake and spend my days loving the One who has raised me up / From death to life, from wrong to right / You’re making all things beautiful”

The albums are below, with a list of my favorite songs from each.

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Brave New World (Amanda Cook) – Mercy, Kind, Pieces

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The Undoing (Steffany Gretzinger) – Out of Hiding, Cecie’s Lullaby, Promise I Always Will

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Alive Again (Matt Maher) – Remembrance (Communion Song), Christ is Risen, You Were on the Cross, Garden

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Let it Be Jesus (Christy Nockels) – My Anchor, Everything is Mine in You, Let it be Jesus, Find My at the Feet of Jesus

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We Will Not be Shaken (Bethel Music)  – We Will Not Be Shaken, Ever Be, No Longer Slaves, You Don’t Miss a Thing, In Over My Head (Crash Over Me)