What I Read: April 2016

April was a ridiculously productive reading month. I still don’t quite know why. I guess it’s because there were so many books I was excited to read and because I used reading as a reward for getting my work done.

Here’s what I read in April, with a brief description of each.

  1. So You’ve Been Publicly Shamed (Jon Ronson) – didn’t love it. I felt like this was a book that could have been a magazine article. However, if you are a big Jon Ronson fan, I’m sure you’d enjoy it. I preferred The Psychopath Test and Nonsense: the Power of Not Knowing.
  2. The Distant Hours (Kate Morton) – This story is set in England and flashes back to the 1930s.  Mysterious, but not a mystery, with an unexpected twist at the end. I enjoyed it.
  3. Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us (Daniel H. Pink) – this is a nonfiction book looking at motivation and our system of rewards in current employment. I read this for class and found it fascinating.
  4. Rising Strong (Brene Brown) – this is the second book of Brown’s that I read. It is about overcoming adversity. I love her sociologist’s perspective. although I could have done without all the anecdotes. Just give me the data.
  5. After You (JoJo Moyes) – This is a must-read for anyone who cried through Before You. Although I find the arc a bit too unbelievable, it provided the resolution I needed and I was pleased.
  6. Four Seasons in Rome: On Twins, Insomnia and the Biggest Funeral in the History of the World (Anthony Doerr) – this was a fun memoir. Doerr reflects on the year he lived in Italy while writing. The funeral refers to the death of the Pope. What I loved best about this was that the book he was supposed to be writing during this year was All the Light We Cannot See, which I loved. A fun, short read.
  7. The Hole in our Gospel: What Does God Expect of Us (Richard Stearns) – challenging and convicting. Written by the president of World Vision.
  8. The Kitchen House (Kathleen Grissom) – I absolutely loved this historical fiction novel set in Virginia in 1810. It tells the story of the antebellum South through the eyes of Belle, a slave whose father is the plantation owner, and Lavinia, a white indentured servant on the same plantation.
  9. Pretty Baby (Mary Kubica) – This was a really interesting suspense novel. I could not put this book down. It tells the story of what happens when a middle aged woman struggling with infertility and depression takes in a homeless girl with a baby. Where it goes…you would never expect.
  10. The Grownup (Gillian Flynn) – I hated everything about this. It’s a short story and I read it in half an hour. If it had been any longer I would have stopped reading.
  11. Glory Over Everything: Beyond the Kitchen House (Kathleen Grissom) – this is the sequel to The Kitchen House. I loved it because it provided some resolution to some loose ends in the first book, but since the main characters are male, it didn’t resonate with me as much.
  12. Garden City: Work, Rest, and the Art of Being Human (John Mark Comer) – a great, Christian, grace-filled perspective on keeping the Sabbath.
  13. Looking for Lovely: Collecting Moments that Matter (Annie F. Downs) – oh, Annie. This book spoke to my heart more than any other book I’ve read this year. My only criticism is that I wish she’d added more Scripture. It’s memoir in every sense.
  14. The Forgetting Time (Sharon Guskin) – This debut novel tells the story of a single mom whose four-year old son suddenly starts “rememebering” things he never experienced. Unique and captivating.

My Top 3: Drive, The Kitchen House, Looking for Lovely

2016 Book Count: 38

April Thoughts & Finds

I feel like I blinked and April was over.  This month has seemed to go by even faster than normal, I guess because I was so busy.  I’m glad to say I was also productive: this month I wrote two 15+ page papers for my classes, accomplished all of my work goals, lost 8 lbs, and still managed to read 14 books!

I will list the books in a separate post, but for now, here’s what I learned in April.

  1. did not learn how to fold a fitted sheet. It’s pathetic. I cannot do it. It’s gotten to the point that I don’t even try anymore and I stuff the sheets inside the matching pillowcase like a sleeping bag. Somebody, help!
  2. I am most successful when I am under pressure. I guess it makes me more disciplined. Honestly, I felt like I was barely keeping my head above water this month, but when I look at what I accomplished, I feel proud.
  3. My Fitness Pal works for me. I’ve been struggling to lose weight this year (and I really need to lose a significant amount).  I’ve had a FitBit since September, but it really didn’t help other than to keep me accountable with movement. I started using the My Fitness Pal app this month to track my calorie intake (this is really where my problem lies anyway). What I love most is that MFP syncs with my FitBit and adjusts my calorie allowance based on my level of activity. Also, at the end of each day, it lets me know how well (or how poorly) I did. I love it! And, considering I lost the same amount of weight this month as I did the first three months of the year combined, I’d say it’s working.
  4. This one isn’t something I learned but something I found. I listen to an unmanageable amount of podcasts and yet discovered two more I love this month. What Should I Read Next? has proven to be a very helpful podcast because it’s given me far better book recommendations than what I’ve received from a few other popular book podcasts. It seems the guests on this show have more similar tastes. Many of the books I read this month were recommendations from this show. The other “find” is Timothy Keller’s Redeemer Church sermons podcast. I learn so much from his teachings.

So that’s what I learned in April. I will be back tomorrow with a list of books I read this month.  If you want to see what others have learned this month, hop on over to Emily’s blog and browse through the link-up.

Current Life Soundtrack

I’ve spent the last four months listening to the same five albums over and over.  I thought it’d be fun to share them today, as these artists and songs have spoken to my heart time and again.  The lyrics in many of these songs have great power and I love that they get stuck in my head.

Just this morning I was switching back and forth between these two refrains.

“You don’t give Your heart in pieces / You don’t hide Yourself to tease us.”

“So I will wake and spend my days loving the One who has raised me up / From death to life, from wrong to right / You’re making all things beautiful”

The albums are below, with a list of my favorite songs from each.

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Brave New World (Amanda Cook) – Mercy, Kind, Pieces

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The Undoing (Steffany Gretzinger) – Out of Hiding, Cecie’s Lullaby, Promise I Always Will

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Alive Again (Matt Maher) – Remembrance (Communion Song), Christ is Risen, You Were on the Cross, Garden

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Let it Be Jesus (Christy Nockels) – My Anchor, Everything is Mine in You, Let it be Jesus, Find My at the Feet of Jesus

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We Will Not be Shaken (Bethel Music)  – We Will Not Be Shaken, Ever Be, No Longer Slaves, You Don’t Miss a Thing, In Over My Head (Crash Over Me)

Something to Gain vs. Nothing to Lose

This week I listened to Jen Hatmaker teaching from Mark 10.  She compared and contrasted James and John asking Jesus for a place of honor in glory to Bartimaeus calling to Jesus, saying, “Lord, have mercy!”

I paused podcast several times to write out her words verbatim because it convicted me so strongly.  I immediately thought of race relations in the United States when she spoke, though she did not mention them.  Here are my notes.

“Those of us at the top of the ladder are going to have the hardest time with this. Jesus said that in so many ways because the more we gain, the more we will feel like we earned it. The more we achieve, the more we want to protect it all.  The more we rise, the further we get from the bottom, which is where Jesus said he could always be found.  The more we have, the harder it is to count it all as loss.”

Those of us who are rich are going to have the hardest time following Jesus.

In both stories, Jesus asks the same question. “What do you want me to do for you?”  The answer to this question reveals our hearts.  Our words and actions may be “right” but our wants reveal what kind of disciple we really are.

Soren Kierkegaard calls the two groups “those who esteem Christ and those who follow Him.”

Am I lifting Jesus higher in hopes that I rise too?  Is my faith self-serving?  Am I pandering to Jesus while praying, “Lord, make me awesome”?

To follow Jesus is to live like He lived.

Do I follow Him because I have something to gain, or because I have nothing to lose?

“Loving Jesus and being loved by Him is going to have to be its own reward.”

What I Read: March 2016

24 books through the first 25% of 2016!  I’ve consistently read 8 books a month even while taking 2 classes a week in the evening.  Not too shabby…

I will say that I had trouble in the second half of last month finding books that I LOVED.  My goal for April is to stop reading the book if I don’t enjoy it.  It may mean my monthly total goes down, but I’m okay with it.

Here’s what I read last month:

SUYL: Favorite Beauty Products

Linking up with Kelly again for this week’s Show Us Your Life.  I get to talk about beauty products!

I am a former Mary Kay consultants, so I’ve got to give a plug here for that! I love Mary Kay’s skin care and foundation…I really do…even though my saleswoman days are over.  If any of you are consultants or directors, I applaud you.  It’s a great company.

The Timewise Miracle Set is wonderful.  I know there are four items pictured here but it’s a very simple routine and you really should wash your face morning and night. I can’t tell a huge difference when I don’t.

TimeWise® Miracle Set® (normal/dry)

I also use the matte wear foundation as I have somewhat oily skin and hate looking shiny.  This has great coverage without getting cakey.

TimeWise® Matte-Wear® Liquid Foundation

I recently reviewed the ISHBeauty Contour Kit in my FabFitFun box and I’ve had a lot of fun using it lately.  I followed a tutorial on the website and I’m enjoying my “new spring look.” The picture makes the bronzers look rather dark — it’s really not like that on your face.

Lastly, I recently bought this mascara at the recommendation of Jamie Ivey.  If you aren’t listening to the Happy Hour Podcast, you are missing out.

Voluminous<sup>®</sup> Carbon Black Mascara Carbon Black - Mascara